We all know that disciplinary action is all about changing behaviours - mediation is just the same, but it's more effective - there's no punishment given and no points to prove. There is, however, a far better understanding of each other's behaviours, how that has made them feel, the consequences so far and the changes they will make in future.
The outcome of a successful mediation (of which over 90% are successful) is a documented outcome confirming the agreed change in how people will work together going forward. Here at Pragmatism we don't believe in sticking plasters - we will always test those outcomes for sustained improvments. This builds the new platform for respectfully working together - and whilst trust will take time to build behaviours will be much better understood - as will the consequences of acting in such a way.
No two people situations are the same, and most people react well to proper, honest conversations. In my view these are a much better investment in time that "judgemental" grievances - try these proper conversations first and nine times out of ten you'll eliminate the issue and start to change the working environment and overall culture.
Director and Lead Mediator
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